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Get Back Together With Your Ex By Becoming Less Available And An Increased Challenge To Her
You used to be a challenge for her. You had a superior value and she was initially irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I am going to make a wild guess here, but is it that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And can it be that at this time, you are absolutely no challenge for her? And that she believes if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and twisted around her finger by simply saying the word?
I am going to be crude here, nevertheless as you know, to develop into a challenge again you need to show to your ex that her sexuality does not have any control over you any longer. Contemplate what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think about exactly what it's like when you keep on doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are implying to the woman that you're a low-value guy without any other options.
Your lady won't respect you again until you reject her sexual power over you. Thankfully you're doing that now by not specifically communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Make sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Do not be "buddies" with her, because that rewards her with the continuing validation of power over you while providing her a convenient excuse to stay split up. (She justifies that she's letting you down easy that way, assuaging virtually any guilt she may experience.)
However, make sure to keep her locked in with the help of your stuff. In all likelihood lots of your possessions are at her residence, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She might get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want everything back.
The ideal response to this is definitely "No, not yet. The justification is because her possessing your stuff (and you holding onto hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the next three weeks, you need to completely accept -- and embrace -- the fact that you are an independent man now. Take what transpired with your ex-lover and learn from it. You've got a wonderful opportunity to transform your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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